And Honestly...

Welcome to And Honestly.... by Lorelai Snow, Essays and stories about desire, relationships, and the quiet ways women can find themselves again.

A new chapter

And Honestly began as a place to write things many of us think about but don't always say out loud. Love, desire, relationships, self-worth, and the complicated beauty of being human. 

Here you'll find essays and stories exploring the emotional and sensual sides of life, written for women who are learning to trust themselves a little more each day.

And Honestly...The Blog

Here you'll find the stories and essays that live at the heart of And Honestly. Fiction about desire and transformation, alongside reflections on love, relationships, and the heart of being human.

Little Kinks

Everyone has a little something that makes their breath catch. Those small, secret switches that wake something deep inside us. 

A playful and honest reflection on Kinks, confidence and the freedom of embracing what turns you on.

Knowing Where You Stand in a Mans World

Modern dating can feel confusing, especially when you're trying to balance confidence with vulnerability. Sometimes the strongest thing a woman can do is simply ask where she stands.

Rethinking The Blowjob 

For years women have been taught to perform sexuality for someone else. But what happens when pleasure becomes something we own instead? An honest look at oral sex and freedom as a woman.

Where Does the Affection Go?

One day they're sending sweet messages and calling you beautiful. The next, something shifts. Understanding why affection suddenly disappears can reveal more about emotional dynamics than we realise.

My Journey as a Writer

My writing didn't begin in a quiet library. It began through life. 

Through years of conversations with men, experiences with love and desire, motherhood, heartbreak, and rediscovering who I was as a woman. 

Those experiences shape the way I see the world and the way I write about it. 

Today, my work as a writer and certified sex therapist, explore womanhood, relationships, sexuality, and emotional growth. Some stories are sensual fiction, where intimacy becomes a place of transformation. Others are reflective essays about modern relationships and the quiet things women often wonder but rarely say out loud. 

Much of my writing is especially for women who are no longer in their twenties, but who still crave life,love and their own desires. Women who have lived, learned and are beginning to rediscover parts of themselves they have put away for years.

Because confidence, sexuality and personal freedom don't have an expiration date.

 

And Honestly...sometimes they're only just the beginning.

 

"Women deserve stories that honour their desire, their complexity, and their second chances."

"The most powerful transformation in a woman's life often begin the moment she stops apologising for who she is."

"And honestly...sometimes the most beautiful love stories happen later in life."

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Location

Queensland, Australia